During a prolonged state of existential despair, I heard something that helped re-frame my life and my recovery:

“From this moment forward, your life is none of your business.”

This talk weaves together:

The first three steps of AA and their deeper meaning.

Why Step 3 (in the context of AA) only makes sense when followed by the action of Step 4.

Why sobriety, or non-dual understanding, doesn’t resolve instability or suffering.

How non-duality provides a powerful framework for embodying surrender.

The realization that the belief “I know what I need” may itself be the problem.

Step 3 is about recognizing the limits of personal will and allowing something more to take the lead.

If you’re struggling in recovery, questioning spirituality, or finding yourself drawn toward non-dual teachings, this talk may help.

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